What’s Love Got to Do with it? – Rob Scott, Tony Lobl, CS and Mother Teresa


I spent time working on behalf of the Human Rights Campaign at the end of 2015 to help pass the Equality Act which would prohibit discrimination in housing, education and employment against LGBT people in 31 states which have no protection. The Equality Act is currently before Congress.

One college student stated he signed up as a member of HRC because he has two moms. He shared that he is a well loved man because of it.I was touched by one heart breaking story in particular. One woman shared that she had a friend whose son was gay. The family ostracized that child for being gay so he left home with no further contact with them and perhaps felt pressured to leave his faith behind too. He died at age 26 from AIDS.But this same women also told me she herself had a gay son but she loved him unconditionally and their family welcomed him and stated God loves him unconditionally regardless of who he loves. As a result, he is now happy, healthy and well adjusted which demonstrates that love is the cure as stated by Sir Elton John.Why is this story important to our youth? See the following listed below from the former deputy director of the White House Office of National AIDS policy under President Clinton and executive director of the Trust for America’s Health.

Also, Check out a spiritual solution written by Tony Lobl, CS. from a Christian Science Perspective.

Mother Teresa states that the greatest suffering is to feel alone, unwanted and unloved. See the video below.

Thus this blog is dedicated to all those who didn’t make it or had to suffer in silence.

Truth, Wisdom, Love and Sincerity, to ALL Mankind,
Rob Scott
Oaxaca, Mexico

PREVENTION:  Starts In Families: LGBTQ youth whose families are more supportive have significantly lower rates of depression, substance abuse and suicidal ideation and attempts. It is important for federal, state, local, community and faith-based programs to support families of LBGTQ youth, such as through parenting skills-building, case management services, professional best practices in the justice and healthcare systems, and promotion of positive role models.
If we do a better job of providing a supportive and respectful environment early in life, we could help reduce the risk of HIV/AIDS and assure a higher quality of life for the next generation of LGBTQ Americans.
Jeff Levi
Former deputy director of the White House Office of National AIDS policy under President Clinton and is the executive director of the Trust for America’s Health.

“Too often in the history of religion, people have killed in the name of the God of life, waged war in the name of the God of peace, hated in the name of the God of love and practiced cruelty in the name of the God of compassion. When this happens, God speaks, sometimes in a still, small voice almost inaudible beneath the clamor of those claiming to speak on his behalf. What he says at such times is: Not in my name.

A Universal Answer to Religious Violence – CSMonitor – 08/02/2015 


The Reciprocity Foundation is a nonprofit dedicated to helping the city’s homeless youth realize their full potential by developing their passions and reconnecting with their spiritual side. Many of the youth they work with are people of color or part of the LGBT community, and many come from religious backgrounds.

“Many (of these youth) feel negatively towards religion since it has contributed to their isolation from their family and/or homelessness,” said Taz Tagore, a Reciprocity co-founder.

“Most LGBT adults have left their childhood religion because of rejection they’ve experienced,” Ryan said. “So many have a lack of rootedness and connectedness. (Reciprocity’s) approach is helping to restore a sense of spiritual practice.”


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Tony is a Christian Science practitioner and a writer on spirituality and health.

Tony Lobl


Stigmas of all sorts have bedevilled humanity for millennia and helped write history. So could they possibly be conquered by something as simple as love?

Well, yes – they sometimes have been. Think of Martin Luther King Jr leading the civil rights movement in the USA or Nelson Mandela spearheading the anti-apartheid transition in South Africa.

And the the same can happen with AIDS, says Sir Elton John.

We need to “be more compassionate to one another, more Christian towards one another, not so hateful to one another,” he once told the BBC during an interview about his book Love is the Cure.

If people showed more understanding and less fear AIDS could be obliterated forever, the rock star philanthropist insisted.

Similar aims were at the heart of the recent US “National Week of Prayer for the Healing of AIDS” with its theme: “Can love conquer stigma?” Its goals included modelling “unconditional love and compassion to all persons living with and affected by HIV”.

Yet there’s more to compassion than just receiving it. For those who are affected, nurturing their own compassion could be key to their wellbeing, according to recent research. It found “holding a compassionate view of others” is one of four spiritual/religious attitudes “significantly related to long survival with AIDS”.

The other three? A sense of peace, faith in God and the right kind of “religious behaviour” – a reference to the fact that the study noted a negative impact from being condemning and judgmental of oneself and others. Yet a much more positive correlation was also discovered: that between frequency of prayer and longevity.

Such scientific confirmation of the role of spiritual resources in coping with AIDS will encourage their adoption by some who might otherwise be unaware of them. Others, though, already recognise the proven value of compassion and prayer in their own lives.

That was the case for a man who tragically lost his wife to AIDS only to be told by doctors he and his daughter had also contracted the disease and would die of it. On top of that he faced the religious stigma of neighbours convinced that AIDS was sent by God to punish sin.

But one question resounded in his thought: “How can God, Love, punish His innocent child?”

Through intense prayer, and the spiritual growth that resulted from it, he became convinced the divine would never do that. Instead, he concluded, God’s thoughts tell us “how to live with courage and be totally free from fear of all kinds”.

When he and his daughter returned for another check-up neither had the HIV virus any longer.

‘The doctor himself was very surprised, and the test was done three times,” the man recalled.

The grateful father attributed the return of health to a spiritual understanding of identity – one poetically captured in a Mindy Jostyn song called “In His Eyes”, written specially for clients at a New York AIDS treatment center.

In His eyes you’re a radiant vision of beauty
A gemstone cut one of a kind
You’re fine as a diamond, deep as a ruby
Rare as a jade in His mind
No need to believe all you may have been told
No need to live in disguise
You’re brighter than silver, purer than gold
A pearl beyond price in His eyes

Accepting this glimpse of who and what we are in the eyes of God can certainly shield us from the barbs of stigmatisation.

Yet could it also do more? Is there an even deeper stigma that can be unearthed and uprooted?

Yes, one that is faced in every instance of disease – namely the silently recurring thoughts that would drum into us that we are basically material rather than spiritual.

To many – like myself – mentally challenging this stigma is at the heart of prayer, because if we successfully silence the voice of this self-stigmatisation we’re left with nothing but the awareness of being a son or daughter of the divine, as Jesus showed us all to be.

Then, like the freedom fighters who evidenced the practicality of love, we can prove for ourselves whether the spiritual growth that let’s us understand that we’re always approved and commended “in His eyes” can heal what’s in our hearts and restore us to health.


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One comment

  1. Andy Gustafson · February 24, 2016

    Rob, this is excellent!


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