CSPS & UN – Disarming hatred – ‘Out of Iraq’: How Two Men Found Love in the Midst of War

Today’s View

In the Islamic State, gay men have been executed by being thrown off buildings. Others have been stoned as crowds cheered.

“In my society, being gay means death,” one Iraqi who escaped from Islamic State control told a United Nations panel.

But in the aftermath of the deadliest mass shooting in American history – in which a man who pledged allegiance to ISIS killed 50 at a gay club in Orlando. Fla., Sunday – Hassan Shibly offered a starkly different view.

The executive director of the Florida branch of the Council on American-Islamic Relations told the Los Angeles Times that, in America, the lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender community has stood at the forefront of the fight against Islamophobia.

“The reality is, we both have the same enemies that promote fear and hate against us, and that have targeted both communities for violent acts,” Mr. Shibly said.

Now, he said, the Muslim community will return the support.

That, we can be sure, was not what the terrorist intended to accomplish.

Mark Sappenfield

– Daily News Briefing



‘Out of Iraq’: How Two Men Found Love in the Midst of War  by Mohamed Hassen – June 11 2016, 1:56 PM ET – NBC News

In 2004, the last thing Nayyef Hrebid, an Iraqi translator for the U.S. Army, and Btoo Allami, an Iraqi soldier, expected to find in their war-torn country was love. But that’s exactly what happened.

“The beautiful thing is that even though we were in danger and could have lost our lives at any moment, our love made us forget and fight for a better life where we’d be together,” Allami told NBC OUT.

Their unlikely love story is the subject of a new documentary, “Out of Iraq,” which was screened at the United Nations on Thursday and will premiere on Logo Monday night. The film follows their journey from their first encounter on a battlefield in Iraq to their marriage in the United States a decade later. The journey, however, was not an easy one.

After meeting in 2004, the two men quickly fell in love and carried out their relationship in secret for safety reasons. Members of the LGBTQ community are severely oppressed in Iraq – a recent survey found 43 percent of respondents in the country believe being LGBTQ should be a crime.

Then in 2009, when militants started targeting Iraqi translators, putting Hrebid in an increasingly dangerous position, he was granted asylum in the U.S. and fled to Seattle. Allami, however, had a much longer road to asylum. The film follows the emotionally painful and physically dangerous years the two men spent apart, as they tried every option they could think of to be reunited again.

“We would like the UNHCR to implement digital recording for translations in interviews, and to expedite their application processing for LGBT refugees,” Hrebid said.

Screening of “Out of Iraq” at the United Nations Brittany Travis / Logo

During a panel discussion before the “Out of Iraq” screening at the United Nations, UNHCR Deputy Director Christine Matthews said the agency hopes to make the film part of training materials for UNHCR staff.

“‘Out of Iraq’ highlights gaps in our agency that UNHCR must learn from. We recently launched a huge effort to sensitize staff and target the best process to address LGBT refugees,” she said.

Now happily married and living in the U.S., Hrebid and Allami are also seeking to improve the lives of refugees. In the past year and a half, they’ve sponsored eight refugees, hosting them in their home, helping them find jobs and helping them enroll in school.

“A lot of people helped bring Allami and I together; it’s now our time to give back,” said Hrebid.



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